toys with

Plays around with

To toy with something is to handle it idly or without serious intent.

You might toy with your food when not hungry, or toy with an idea you're not committed to pursuing.

To toy with a person is to treat them carelessly, especially their emotions: He was just toying with her affections.

The phrase suggests casual manipulation or lack of genuine engagement.

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play · contemplates · experiments · tinkers · tempts · trifles · provokes · considers · flirts · tantalizes · dallies · ponders · muses · taunts · speculates · mocks · juggles · imagines

Opposites
seriousness of engagement

toys withtackles

Engages or brings down

works at

emotional sincerity

toys withcherishes

Deeply values and protects

treasures · respects · honors · values · nurtures

decisiveness

toys withresolves

Settles or concludes firmly

acts on · seizes

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G