suiting oneself

Following own desires

Suiting oneself means doing what one wants without seeking permission or worrying about others' preferences.

The phrase often carries a note of independence or mild defiance: Suit yourself can be dismissive, suggesting the speaker has stopped trying to persuade.

She suited herself and ordered dessert first.

To suit oneself is to prioritize personal comfort or desire over convention or others' expectations.

Related

treating yourself · nonconformity · free spirit · uniqueness · agency · free will · autonomy · whim · independence · going solo · comfort · originality · decision-making · privacy · enjoyment · gratification · empowerment · fulfillment

Opposites
self vs. other orientation

suiting oneselfserving others

Attending to others' needs

people-pleasing · self-sacrifice · altruism

autonomy vs. compliance

suiting oneselfobeying

Following directives given

complying · conforming · submitting · toeing the line · falling in line

indulgence vs. self-denial

suiting oneselfself-denial

Restraining one's own desires

self-sacrifice · forgoing · self-abnegation · abstaining · martyrdom

Family

suit, suits, suited, suiting, suitable, suitably, unsuitable, unsuitably, suitability

Familiarity
Top 200,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G