spilling the tea

Revealing juicy details

Spilling the tea means sharing gossip or revealing juicy, often scandalous information about someone or something.

The expression comes from Black and LGBTQ+ slang and gained mainstream popularity through drag culture and reality television.

Tea here refers to the gossip itself—the hot, fresh details everyone wants to hear.

She was spilling the tea about what really happened at the party.

The shorter form spill works the same way: Okay, spill—what did he say?

Related

hot goss · juicy details · exposé · talk · grapevine · word on the street · tell all · oversharing · no filter · loose lips · scandal · revelation · dirt · rumor · spreading rumors · receipts · chatting · confession

Opposites
disclosure of secrets/gossip

spilling the teakeeping quiet

Remaining silent

keeping mum · biting one's tongue · buttoning up · clamming up · discretion

social communication style

spilling the teadiscretion

Careful judgment in speech

keeping to oneself · privacy · reticence · taciturnity · saying nothing

Family

spill, spills, spilled, spilt, spilling

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG