shilly-shallying

Constant indecisive wavering

Shilly-shallying is indecisive hesitation—wavering back and forth instead of committing to a course of action.

The word suggests irritating or time-wasting dithering: Stop your shilly-shallying and make a decision.

Someone who shilly-shallies can't seem to make up their mind, often to the frustration of others waiting on them.

indecision

vacillating

Swaying between choices

undecided · unsure · fence-sitting · noncommittal · torn · conflicted · ambivalent · hemming and hawing · oscillating · teetering

delay

procrastinating

Postponing what needs doing

deferring · dragging feet · time-wasting · putting off · delaying · prolonging · temporizing · holding back · hedging · playing for time

dawdling

loitering

Purposeless public lingering

idling · pottering · moseying · tarrying · lagging · meandering · trifling · frittering · piddling · faffing

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decisiveness

shilly-shallyingdecisiveness

Ability to choose firmly

resolute · decisive · determined · confident · unhesitating

action orientation

shilly-shallyingacting

Temporarily holding position

doing · taking action · forging ahead · plunging in · diving in

action and momentum

shilly-shallyingacting

Temporarily holding position

taking action · forging ahead · plunging in · diving in · pushing ahead

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