played someone like a violin

Masterfully controlled emotionally

To play someone like a violin is to manipulate them with skill and ease, exploiting their emotions or vulnerabilities to get what you want.

The idiom evokes a musician's complete mastery over their instrument—every string responsive to the slightest touch.

She played him like a violin, getting him to confess everything.

The phrase typically carries a tone of grudging admiration for the manipulator's craftiness, or contempt for the person who was so easily handled.

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persuasion · deceit · captivated · exploitation · emotional manipulation · cunning · trickery · false pretenses · con artist · virtuosity · maneuvering · swayed · wooed · mesmerized · enchanted · scheming · finesse · influenced

Opposites
manipulation vs. honesty

played someone like a violintold it like it is

Communicated harsh reality directly

plain dealing

victimizer vs. victim

played someone like a violingot played

fell for it

Family

played, playing, player, players, playful, playfully, playfulness, playable, replayed

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G