march to the beat of one's own drummer

Follow personal rhythm

To march to the beat of one's own drummer is to live according to your own values and instincts rather than conforming to social expectations.

The image is of a marcher who hears music no one else does: She's always marched to the beat of her own drummer—dropped out of law school to become a beekeeper.

The phrase derives from Thoreau's *Walden* and usually carries approval, suggesting independence rather than mere eccentricity.

Related

defiance · maverick · wild card · eccentricity · personal agency · freedom · imagination · authenticity · iconoclasm · uniqueness · one of a kind · bohemian · originality · ingenuity · self-determination · go against the grain · inspiration · rebellion

Opposites
conformity vs. independence

march to the beat of one's own drummerconform

Behave as expected

follow the crowd · fall in line · go with the flow · toe the line · keep up with the Joneses

originality vs. imitation

march to the beat of one's own drummerimitate

Reproduce another's behavior

jump on the bandwagon · mimic · parrot · follow in someone's footsteps

independence vs. dependence

march to the beat of one's own drummerfollow orders

follow the leader · take orders · groupthink · kowtow

Family

marches, marched, marching, marcher, marchers, beater, beaters, drummed, drummer

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Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G