lose one's cool

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To lose one's cool is to lose composure—to become angry, flustered, or visibly upset after maintaining calm.

The phrase implies a break in self-control: She kept it together through the meeting but finally lost her cool when he interrupted her again.

Cool here represents emotional control, and losing it means that control has slipped.

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fly into a rage · shouting · go ballistic · anger · yelling · boil over · provocation · snapping · frustration · composure · exasperation · blow a fuse · have a cow · rage · freak out · go off the deep end · fury · annoyance

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Opposites
emotional composure

lose one's coolkeep one's cool

Maintain emotional control

stay calm · keep calm · stay cool · keep one's head · hold it together

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G