kissing and telling

Sharing romantic secrets

Kissing and telling is sharing intimate details about a romantic or sexual encounter, especially when discretion was expected.

The phrase often appears as an accusation: He's the type who kisses and tells.

Someone who doesn't kiss and tell keeps private matters private.

The noun form kiss-and-tell describes exposés about relationships with celebrities or public figures: a kiss-and-tell memoir.

Related
  • rumorUnconfirmed circulating story
  • secrecyPractice of hiding information
  • hearsayUnverified secondhand information
  • tabooCultural or social prohibition
  • romanceLove and its excitement

oversharing · scandal · dishonesty · treachery · reputation · mistrust · tabloid · celebrity gossip · media circus · exposure · public humiliation · confession · propriety · deceit · loose lips · blabbing · spill the tea · private life

Opposites
discretion about intimate matters

kissing and tellingdiscretion

Careful judgment in speech

keeping mum · keeping secrets · silence · tight-lipped · keeping one's own counsel

loyalty and trust

kissing and tellingloyalty

Faithful commitment to another

faithfulness · trustworthiness · keeping faith · having someone's back · discretion

Family

kissed, kisses, kisser, kissers, kissable, teller, tellers, telling, telltale

Familiarity
Top 500,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG