holding one's horses

Pausing before acting

Holding one's horses means waiting or exercising patience, typically used as a command to someone acting too hastily: Hold your horses—let me finish explaining.

The image is of reining in eager horses ready to bolt.

The phrase usually appears as an imperative, often with mild exasperation.

Related

reining in · pausing · take a breath · calmness · easy does it · forethought · restraint · caution · circumspection · delaying · self-control · prudence · whoa · carefulness · hesitating · deliberation · postponement · self-discipline

Opposites
patience and restraint

holding one's horsesrushing in

Entering with haste

jumping the gun · flying off the handle · plunging in · throwing caution to the wind · shooting from the hip

speed of action

holding one's horsesrushing

Rapid forward movement

hurrying · speeding up · pressing on · pushing forward · accelerating

Family

holds, holding, holder, holders, beholden, behold, horse, horses, horsed

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G