hemmed and hawed

Couldn't commit verbally

Hemmed and hawed describes hesitating or stalling instead of giving a direct answer.

The phrase pairs two sounds of verbal hesitation—hem and haw—into a single expression for evasiveness or indecision: When I asked if he'd be there, he hemmed and hawed.

Someone who hems and haws may be uncertain, uncomfortable, or buying time.

Related
  • umSpoken hesitation marker
  • falterLose momentum or steadiness
  • uhVocalized hesitation marker
  • pauseTemporary cessation of activity
  • postponementDelaying to later

ambivalence · uncertainty · vacillate · quandary · vagueness · wavering · second-guessing · dithering · beat around the bush · circumlocution · wishy washy · er · oscillation · on the fence · stammer · shilly-shally · avoidance · irresolution

Opposites
decisiveness

hemmed and hawedcommitted

Firmly pledged or bound

took the plunge · bit the bullet · pulled the trigger · went for it

directness of communication

hemmed and hawedgot to the point

Reached the essence

cut to the chase · told it like it is · spit it out · called a spade a spade

Family

hemmed, hemming, hawed, hawing

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G