held one's peace

Kept quiet deliberately

To hold one's peace is to remain silent, especially when you might be expected or tempted to speak.

The phrase appears in traditional wedding ceremonies: If anyone knows why these two should not be married, speak now or forever hold your peace.

Outside that context, it suggests deliberate restraint—choosing not to voice an objection, opinion, or grievance: I disagreed with the decision but held my peace.

Related

kept quiet · silent treatment · reticence · said nothing · patience · let it go · decorum · composure · hush · bit one's tongue · self-possession · stiff upper lip · discretion · tact · reserve · unspoken · stoicism · stillness

Opposites
verbal expression

held one's peacespoke up

Expressed oneself aloud

spoke out · said one's piece · sounded off · piped up · chimed in

emotional restraint

held one's peaceblew up

Burst from pressure

lost one's temper · flew off the handle · let loose · exploded · lashed out

conflict engagement

held one's peacemade a scene

Behaved dramatically in public

protested · stirred the pot · rocked the boat · made waves · challenged

Family

held, holds, holding, holdings, holder, holders, beheld, behold, beholden

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G