having sex

Making love together

Having sex is engaging in sexual activity with another person, typically intercourse.

The phrase is deliberately vague about specifics—it can cover penetrative sex, oral sex, or other intimate acts: Are they having sex?

We had sex for the first time.

The construction treats sex as something you have rather than do, like having dinner or having a conversation.

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carnal knowledge · doing it · getting busy · getting laid · intimacy · hookup · one night stand · friends with benefits · mating · banging · hooking up · Netflix and chill · fucking · bumping uglies · roll in the hay · sleeping together · fooling around · afternoon delight

Opposites
sexual activity vs. abstention

having sexabstinence

Voluntary forgoing of indulgences

celibacy · abstaining · chastity · sexual abstinence · refraining

intimate connection vs. isolation

having sexbeing alone

State without company

solitude · isolation · loneliness · separation

intimacy type

having sexcuddling

Affectionate close holding

holding hands · emotional intimacy · platonic love · companionship · friendship

Family

sex, bedding, intercourse, lovemaking, copulation, procreation, fornication

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated R