grasps the nettle

Tackles uncomfortable directly

Grasps the nettle means to tackle a difficult or unpleasant situation with determination.

The phrase comes from the literal advice that firmly gripping a stinging nettle hurts less than brushing against it timidly.

After months of delay, she finally grasped the nettle and told him the marriage was over.

British English favors this expression more than American.

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resolve · adventurism · fortitude · fearlessness · nerves of steel · toughness · stiff upper lip · confronts · faces the music · grit · steadfastness · perseverance · audacity · resolution · tough call · endurance · boldness · commitment

Opposites
confronting vs avoiding difficulty

grasps the nettleburies one's head in the sand

Willful ignorance of danger

shies away from · kicks the can down the road · sidesteps · evades · ducks

decisive action vs hesitation

grasps the nettlehesitates

Shows momentary indecision

dithers · vacillates · procrastinates · drags one's feet · wavers

courage vs cowardice in facing pain

grasps the nettlechickens out

Abandons plan from fear

backs down · shrinks back · cowers · gets cold feet · wimps out

Family

grasp, grasps, grasped, grasping, graspable, nettle, nettles, nettled, nettling

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Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G