good cop/bad cop

Friendly-hostile questioning pair

Good cop/bad cop is an interrogation technique where two questioners alternate between friendly and hostile approaches, the contrast designed to make the subject more cooperative with the sympathetic one.

The phrase extends to any situation where partners strategically play opposing roles: They pulled the good cop/bad cop routine on the car salesman.

Sometimes describes uncoordinated personality differences rather than deliberate strategy.

Related

cop show · persuasion · rapport · empathy · false friend · power dynamics · coercion · trust-building · authority figures · interviewing · manipulation · mind games · carrot and stick · tough love · pressure tactics · grilling · probing · inquisition

Opposites
negotiation/persuasion approach

good cop/bad copstraight dealing

Honest, transparent transactions

straight talk · cards on the table · unified front · what-you-see-is-what-you-get

Family

good, goods, goodness, goodly, copper, coppers

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG