getting back at

Returning the favor

Getting back at means retaliating or seeking revenge against someone who wronged you: She's just getting back at him for what he said at dinner.

The phrase implies a deliberate, often petty response to a perceived slight rather than formal justice or proportional retaliation.

Related

retribution · reprisal · vengeance · cold dish · sabotage · pranking · taste of their own medicine · spite · tit for tat · anger · vindictiveness · grievances · score to settle · disputes · settling scores · comeuppance · resentment · holding a grudge

Opposites
response to wrongdoing

getting back atforgiving

Inclined to pardon offenses

pardoning · letting go · excusing · reconciling · absolving

emotional stance toward offender

getting back atletting bygones be bygones

Pardoning previous conflicts

forgiving and forgetting · rising above · wishing well · blessing · forbearing

action orientation

getting back athelping

Single portion given

rewarding

Family

getting, gotten, back, backs, backed, backing, backer, backers, backward

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G