fend for oneself

Survive without help

To fend for oneself is to manage without help from others—to take care of your own needs independently.

The phrase often appears when someone is left to cope alone: Her parents traveled constantly, leaving her to fend for herself from a young age.

It implies self-reliance, sometimes forced by circumstance.

self-reliance

independence

Freedom from external control

resilience · adaptability · ingenuity · capability · competence · empowerment · agency · bootstrapping · scrappiness · hustle

Opposites
self-reliance vs. dependence

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Obtain by begging

freeload

Family

fend, defend, defense, defensive, defensively, defenses, defender, defendants, defendant

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G