cozy up to

Seek someone's warmth

To cozy up to someone is to ingratiate yourself with them, typically for personal gain.

The phrase suggests cultivating closeness that may be insincere: She's been cozying up to the boss lately.

It can also describe physical proximity—snuggling or settling in close to someone: The cat cozied up to me on the couch.

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snuggle · cuddle · bond · court · nestle · charm · play nice · network · rub elbows · manipulate · schmooze · cajole · wheedle · persuade · maneuver · embrace · exploit · coax

Opposites
social approach and affiliation

cozy up toshun

Deliberately keep away

cold-shoulder · rebuff · spurn · alienate · avoid

interpersonal authenticity

cozy up tolevel with

Speak honestly to

power dynamics

cozy up tostand up to

Confront without retreating

confront · challenge · defy · oppose · intimidate

Family

cozy, cozier, coziest, cozily, coziness, cosy, cosiest, cosily

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G