butted heads

Had a confrontation

To butt heads is to clash or come into conflict, usually over a disagreement: The two executives butted heads over the company's direction.

The image is of rams or goats ramming their heads together in confrontation.

Butted heads is the past tense, describing a conflict that already occurred: We butted heads a few times, but eventually found common ground.

Related

had words · argument · feud · bad blood · at loggerheads · stubbornness · compromise · cleared the air · frustration · quarrel · impact · ram · rivalry · power struggle · discord · standoff · contention · wrestle

Opposites
interpersonal conflict vs. harmony

butted headscooperated

Acted jointly with others

saw eye to eye · collaborated · got along · agreed · worked together

confrontation vs. avoidance

butted headsbacked down

Retreated from a position

yielded · deferred · let it go · walked away · kept the peace

Family

butt, butted, butting, butts, head, heads, headed, heading, headless

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G