bent over backwards

Tried extremely hard

Bent over backwards describes making an extraordinary effort to help or accommodate someone, often more than seems reasonable or deserved: I bent over backwards to make her feel welcome, and she still complained.

The image suggests contorting oneself unnaturally to please others.

Usually appears with *bend* rather than *bent*: They'll bend over backwards to keep that client happy.

Related

stretch · pliant · selflessness · move heaven and earth · overboard · altruism · meet halfway · considerate · obliging · leave no stone unturned · give one's all · flexible · jump through hoops · pull out all the stops · assiduous · sacrifice · attentive · above and beyond

Opposites
effort and accommodation

bent over backwardsminimal effort

Smallest exertion needed

coasted · couldn't be bothered · slacked off · mailed it in · cut corners

willingness to help

bent over backwardsstonewalled

Deliberately unresponsive

turned a blind eye · looked the other way · obstructed · couldn't care less · abandoned

Family

backwards, bends, bending, bender, unbent, backward, backs, backed, backing

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G