bends over backwards

Tries extremely hard

To bend over backwards is to make an extraordinary effort to accommodate or please someone, often beyond what's reasonable: She bends over backwards to make her in-laws comfortable.

The image is of contorting oneself physically to serve another's needs.

Usually appears with for: They bent over backwards for us.

Related

accommodating · at your service · adjustable · diligent · supportive · generous · move heaven and earth · considerate · devoted · self-sacrificing · unselfish · pliable · adaptable · pull out all the stops · malleable · giving · cooperative · committed

Opposites
effort and accommodation

bends over backwardscouldn't care less

Complete absence of concern

coasts · mails it in · slacks off · can't be bothered · shirks

attitude toward others

bends over backwardsstonewalls

Delays through evasion

obstructs · brushes off · dismisses · ignores · rebuffs

cooperation vs. obstruction

bends over backwardsstonewalls

Delays through evasion

obstructs · blocks · hinders · thwarts · sabotages

Family

bends, bending, backward, backwards

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G