asked for trouble

Courted inevitable disaster

To have asked for trouble is to have behaved in a way that made a bad outcome predictable or inevitable.

The phrase assigns blame: He asked for trouble when he insulted the bouncer.

It suggests the person should have known better, that consequences were foreseeable.

Sometimes used to blame victims: She asked for trouble dressing like that—a usage that shifts responsibility unfairly.

Related

repercussions · daring · irresponsibility · defiance · rashness · foolhardiness · negligence · comeuppance · just desserts · punishment · audacity · carelessness · fallout · had it coming · playing with fire · pushing your luck · antagonism · tempting fate

Opposites
prudence and risk behavior

asked for troubleplayed it safe

Acted to minimize risk

erred on the side of caution · hedged one's bets · thought twice · walked on eggshells

self-protective action

asked for troublelet sleeping dogs lie

Avoid rekindling dormant issues

kept the peace · de-escalated · kept a low profile · flew under the radar · backed down

foolhardiness vs wisdom

asked for troubleknew better

Had superior judgment

Family

asked, asker, trouble, troubles, troubled, troubling, troublesome, troublemaker

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G