untogether
Not having composure
Untogether describes someone who lacks composure or organization—scattered, disorganized, or emotionally unsettled.
The opposite of having it together: She's been pretty untogether since the breakup.
The word suggests a temporary state of chaos rather than a permanent character flaw: I was completely untogether that morning.
Totally without arrangement
- messyLacking order or neatness
- unfocusedWithout clear direction
- incoherentLacking logical connection
- jumbledDisordered, lacking arrangement
muddled · all over the place · discombobulated · haphazard · uncoordinated · slapdash · disheveled · helter-skelter
Prone to sudden change
- fragileEasily broken or damaged
- unhingedMentally or emotionally unstable
- falling apartGradually breaking into pieces
- brokenDamaged beyond function
struggling · overwhelmed · anxious · unraveling · neurotic · frazzled · distressed · dysfunctional
Separated by emotional distance
- separatedPut or kept apart
- apartIn different locations
- distantFar away or aloof
- disconnectedSeparated from a source
split · broken up · on the outs · alienated · at odds · divided · detached · uninvolved
chaotic
Totally without arrangement
- messyLacking order or neatness
- unfocusedWithout clear direction
- incoherentLacking logical connection
jumbled · muddled · all over the place · discombobulated · haphazard · uncoordinated · slapdash · disheveled · helter-skelter · unsystematic
unstable
Prone to sudden change
- fragileEasily broken or damaged
- unhingedMentally or emotionally unstable
- falling apartGradually breaking into pieces
broken · struggling · overwhelmed · anxious · unraveling · neurotic · frazzled · distressed · dysfunctional · insecure
estranged
Separated by emotional distance
disconnected · split · broken up · on the outs · alienated · at odds · divided · detached · uninvolved · uncommitted
untogethertogether
In union or proximity
organized · put-together · sorted · functional · competent
together, untidy, scattered, altogether, disorderly, togetherness, disjointed, fragmented, unorganized