making nice

Patching things up

Making nice is behaving pleasantly or agreeably toward someone, often despite underlying tension or past conflict.

The phrase suggests the friendliness is strategic or insincere—a social performance rather than genuine warmth: After the argument, they spent the holidays making nice for the kids' sake.

Sometimes implies superficial reconciliation without addressing real issues.

Related

bridge-building · building bridges · reconciliation · mending fences · apology · kindness · compassion · forgiveness · appeasement · emotional intelligence · compromise · keeping the peace · patience · flattery · mediation · people-pleasing · understanding · diplomacy

Opposites
interpersonal conflict management

making niceescalating

Increasing by degrees

antagonizing · provoking · making waves · rocking the boat · fanning the flames

authenticity of reconciliation

making nicehaving it out

Direct confrontation about grievances

sincere apology · airing grievances · calling out · speaking one's mind · standing one's ground

social demeanor

making nicesnubbing

Pointedly ignoring someone

freezing out

Family

make, makes, made, maker, makers, making, remake, remaking, remade

Familiarity
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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G