goes Dutch

Pays own share

Goes Dutch means splitting the cost of a meal or outing rather than having one person pay for everyone.

The phrase typically describes a dating arrangement where each person covers their own expenses: We went Dutch on dinner.

Going Dutch avoids the expectation that one party—traditionally the man—will treat the other.

Related

mutual agreement · reciprocity · personal finance · fairness · budgeting · self-sufficiency · dining etiquette · first date · dinner date · thriftiness · colloquialism · historical references · economic cooperation · metaphorical speech · social norms · dating · check · even split

Opposites
payment responsibility

goes Dutchtreats

Snacks given as rewards

foots the bill · buys · pays · wines and dines · bankrolls

generosity/treating

goes Dutchentertains

Provides amusement to others

lavishes

social/relational gesture

goes Dutchwining and dining

Lavish entertaining with food

lavishing · patronizing

Family

goes, gone, Dutch, Dutchman, Dutchmen, Dutchwoman

Familiarity
Top 200,000
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G