cold-shouldered

Given icy treatment

Cold-shouldered describes being deliberately ignored or treated with aloofness.

Someone who has been cold-shouldered received a chilly reception—dismissed or snubbed rather than welcomed: She cold-shouldered him at the party after their argument.

The expression comes from the cold shoulder, a gesture of pointed indifference.

indifference

ignored

Purposely not noticed

disregarded · unnoticed · invisible · dismissed · tuned-out · unheard · unseen · blanked · stonewalled

rejection

snubbed

Intentionally disregarded

refused · unwelcome · jilted · repudiated · passed-over · disregarded · slighted · scorned

exclusion

ostracized

Excluded from a group

marginalized · isolated · banished · alienated · outcast · exiled · cut-off · excluded

aloofness

distant

Far away or aloof

frosty · icy · cool · remote · stiff · unresponsive · unwelcoming · inhospitable · unapproachable · withdrawn

Opposites
social reception/treatment

cold-shoulderedembraced

Held someone warmly

accepted · included · fêted · befriended · taken in

attention and acknowledgment

cold-shoulderedacknowledged

Accepted as true

noticed · attended to · paid attention to · recognized · courted

Family

coldness, colder, cold-shouldering, coldest, cold shoulder, cold-shoulder

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G