ate away at

Slowly wore down

Ate away at describes gradual erosion or consumption over time.

Physically, something eats away at a surface: Rust ate away at the metal.

More often figurative—guilt, doubt, or resentment ate away at someone, meaning it troubled them persistently: The secret ate away at her for years.

The phrase implies slow, corrosive damage rather than sudden destruction.

Related

rumination · guilt · nagged · decay · regret · mental anguish · inner turmoil · abrasion · oxidation · worry · weathering · crumbling · attrition · festered · wore down · piece by piece · stress · self-doubt

Opposites
gradual destruction vs preservation/building

ate away atbuilt up

Increased through accumulation

reinforced · strengthened · fortified · preserved · restored

psychological erosion vs mental strengthening

ate away atreassured

Had confidence restored

comforted · bolstered · put at ease · encouraged · uplifted

manner of destruction: gradual vs sudden

ate away atdemolished

Completely destroyed a structure

obliterated · annihilated · shattered · exploded · smashed

Family

ate, away, eaten, eater, eaters

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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G